We have all been in some terrible relationships. They come and go and ruin us all from the inside. In every relationship, we come across a wonderful person whom we believe to be ‘the one’, but in the end, they just break our heart and leave. In the end, we stop believing in the concept of ‘The One’. However, we should not lose faith. That perfectly compatible person can be difficult to find but they do exist. It is also necessary for us to realize when that perfect partner is in our presence. We wouldn’t want to break our relationship with that person and then start regretting it. These are some of the things you would be feeling if you are in a relationship with The One:
1. It was never like this before
Somehow, you can feel a spark that you never thought existed. It was like something moves inside you when the two of you meet, talk and just be together doing nothing. When you have them beside you, everything feels a lot different. It seems like they have opened up a whole new version of you and you are feeling amazing about it.
2. Growing Together
When you are with your One, then you will grow together without ever obstructing each other. Both of you create a support system for each other and you grow within that. While it seems that every relationship should have a similar kind of support system, and it is something that is expected – not every relationship has it. Your partner will support you in everything that you wish to do, no questions asked. You are both involved in decision making equally. And it’s only because you are with that special person that you were able to achieve this state together.
3. A different kind of comfort
The comfort level is through the room. You can wear whatever you want but you know that your partner will accept you just the way you are. Even if you are a bit messy and still don’t want to take a bath, your partner will support you. You will be comfortable in your skin and there will be no criticism coming from your partner. However, there might be some occasions when you may require some kind of opinion. Well, in those cases, you get valid constructive criticism from your partner – the right kind!
4. Intimacy Is Different
It’s not like sexual intimacy is mind-blowing or something. You may have had a better partner in bed before. But with your One, that act will somehow feel more meaningful. It’s almost like a journey, not only to discover your partner but to discover yourself in the process as well. Your partner just brings a whole new definition to the simple act of making love. You can’t really define what it is – but it is pure passion and pure romance. What else could anybody want?
5. Becoming the Best
With all the support and growth that you are experiencing because of your partner, you end up becoming the best version of yourself. Unlike many other people, your partner does not try to demean you and pull you down, nor do they flatter you when you are in the wrong. They have the right kind of response to a situation from which you may learn and grow.
6. No Shortcuts
The relationship flows smoothly and everything somehow falls in place almost naturally. You do not really have to put in any kind of extra effort to make something happen. Neither does your partner have to do anything. Once you take the few basic steps to nurture the relationship, you will see that it keeps floating ahead smoothly. No one needs to get out of their way to push it further.
There’s a deep connection that you have with the other person. You feel like they know you inside out and if you search within, then you will know them too, inside out. Once you have come together in a relationship, you have set the ball rolling – a bond has been made. This connection almost seems unbreakable. And, to be honest, you don’t even want to know how it is formed. You know that it is there and that it is beautiful and growing stronger. Why would you prod it any further?
8. Finally, Out of Expectations
This might seem strange, but your One may not be what you had expected. They may be someone who’s completely different from what your ‘type’ is. In any other time, you would never really have gone for them, but maybe the time was just right. Your One does not tick all your ‘Expectation Checkboxes’ and so, they challenge you every step. And that’s what makes them really beautiful.
If you find these signs in your partner, then you can be sure that he/she is the One. Try not to give them away for anyone else!
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