Guys change in a relationship. From being somewhat in a toxic masculine situation with their own ‘bros’, they really change when they fall in love with someone. And that does entail doing things simply because they want to do them for the other person.
One needs to keep in mind that if their boyfriend does any of these, it isn’t because he expects you to reciprocate. He would do it regardless of whether you appreciate him for it or not. But at the same time, it doesn’t hurt to appreciate him occasionally for that, does it?
Here are 7 things a man would do for you if they truly love you:
Try To Uplift Your Mood
If you had a hard day at work or you just went through a typical bad day, your boyfriend would see to it that it doesn’t last. He would make you your favorite dish, or clean the entire room, or maybe take you out to watch your favorite movie. Or he might simply snuggle with you and wrap you in your arms. In any event, you wouldn’t be sad any longer.
Ensure Your Safety
Imagine you are going somewhere and he is busy. You know that you are an independent woman who is quite efficient in doing her own work alone. But, honestly tell me; wouldn’t it make you even a little bit pleased if he calls you sometimes to check on you? Wouldn’t it please you to see him waiting for you after he is done with his work to surprise you? A boyfriend who loves you would always do these small gestures to make you happy.
Merge With Your Family
A boyfriend who loves you would definitely try and merge with your family, because he not only loves you, but also wants to keep the relationship intact with you. He envisions a family with you, for which, getting to know your family is very important. He accepts your family as his own and makes conscious efforts to keep them pleased.
Discussions About The Future
A boyfriend who is in love with you would definitely talk about a future with you. He would think about a small house in the hills, a couple of kids and a dog. He would talk about a life that might not be filled to the brim with luxury, but one that has happiness inside. And, he would involve you in it. You are crucial to the entire future he is envisioning, and you would not only be his partner, but he would also see you as the mother of his children.
Support You In Your Work
He might not be a part of your education or your work, but he would make your life easier by handling everything else. While you are spending late nights, working away on your laptop, he would make sure that you are eating well and not wasting away. He would make sure to tuck you in, if you suddenly doze off. And while that may not seem like a great deal in the greater scheme of things, at times even the smallest of things make a huge difference.
Make Up After A Fight
Someone who truly loves you would always be the first to call after a fight. You might be the one who is wrong, but he would be the one apologizing and making up. He doesn’t want to lose you and no matter how angry he could be at you, he would make sure to never do anything that would hurt your wellbeing. At the same time, it is also your responsibility to realize that those mean things could be said from both ends. So, if he is trying to make up, meet him halfway. Compromise has to be done from both the sides in some ways.
Says “I love you” Before You Go To Sleep
This is actually cute, for, a loving boyfriend would never ever forget to tell you that he loves you before you fall asleep. He may be busy throughout the entire day, might have a fight with you, might be sick, but he would never miss telling you that he loves you. For he knows, if you hear him say that, you would go to sleep with a full smile on your face. And that will always mean something to him.
There are a lot of other things that symbolize his love. But at the end of the day, love will always have to be from both directions. It remains to be seen how appreciated his love would be. For he will keep trying!
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